ADVENTURES IN A SAUNA, ONE BORING EVENING.

come play with me...?

Saunas or bath houses, whichever way you call it is a place people go for baths...yes, the naive me once thought, but when I stepped into one myself, how much of that thought just vanished and how much I learnt about such a place called saunas or bath houses. Actually, the word sauna is a very innocent word, but coined into today's text, its not so much as simple like we want it to be.

So, that evening, my dear PBF messaged me in cyberspace and after exchanging our pleasantries began to update me what he did for that evening. One of the places that he made was to a local sauna located in Taman Desa, which we all know as MM. Curious to know how it went he told me that it was not a very fruitful night, meaning to say, not many of the good looking or hot guys were there.

I told him bluntly that being a weekday, for certain you would not expect to get a good crowd there. However, as optimist as I was, he told me that he did find 'someone' along the lurks of the corridor to have some release, but this was not the meaning gist of what actually happened.

According to my PBF, while in the steam room, some chubby guy actually urinated in there and the minute he did that, one could hear the rippling sound as it went down toward the slippery wet floor and the next minute, it stench like some kid tossing a stink bomb. Yes, some fat guy actually did that, and I asked him how sure he was it was him who did it, and my PBF not the one to hold anything from me, said he was merely inches away from him when it happened.

My first reaction to it was, how on earth could he just stand there and watch / hear, whatever you call it? Being misty and so, I mean, its not going to be a sight to behold, right? Well, thank goodness for him, the minute he heard the few sound of the splashes, he hasten his steps out of the place, and while making his way to the door, the whole steam room already had the stench of ammonia!!

Gross!! How can anyone do that in a steam room? But, to think of it, anything can happen in a steam room, right guys? But to pee in there, I mean if you say, someone actually had cum in there, ok, still can be accepted but to actually do that action there is like, double icky gross! Hmm, having said that, stepping on someones else 'cum' on the slippery floor is no fun at all too, to which I think one have to take precautions especially entering a steam room in a bath house.

would u like me to be your FB?

Anyway, my PBF did manage to hook a guy and his impression of this guy was by his measurement of his dick, which according to him was extremely large for a Chinese. Also, this guy had a nice body and his face was just so so, but according to him, could have recruited as FB (fuck buddy). Well, too bad, for after having his little tryst in one of the cubicles available in MM, he left and so did the other guy. It was sheer pity but, I advised him, perhaps make another trip again on the same day and time, the following week, maybe, just maybe, he might be able to catch his large tool friend?

THE 80's ROCK!!

I just love the 80's and why not? We have all the good music there and one of them, is a group I have not heard it for a long time on the radio's now. Yup, the group Ah-Ha from the Nordic country and once a upon a time, they were so cute, I actually fantasized about them, perhaps, its me and blonde's!

Anyway, this kind of music were the sort that made my heart skip a beat faster as I reminded me how much of memories it held for me, and how much, I enjoyed dancing to its tune. So, today, upon hearing this on the radio, I was like, must add this to my Blog. I know some of you don't even know this song or this group, what the heck, a bit of history lesson for you as you traverse along, at least, don't allow people to call you "JAKUN" for not knowing a bit of music history!

Enjoy...

FATT FATT MEME - ANOTHER FITTED HUMOR

what another meme...?

Received a message from Bong Bong telling me that I have a meme to compile and when I looked that topics, I'm perplexed with the chosen choice of questions. I never thought that I will be doing this and I would love to avoid getting too personal about it too, but I don't think so, perhaps I'm getting a bit bolder as the days go by and I would like to shed off more skin, just to reveal a bit more of my crazy side.

So here goes nothing:-

8 Things I'm Passionate about:

1. Family ties.

2. Friendships.

3. Love.

4. Enjoying a good meal with good company.

5. Equality for all.

6. Discerning and having a conscience attitude.

7. Acceptance.

8. Non-judgemental.

8 Things I want to do before I die:

1. Live & work in New York.

2. Travel to outer space.

3. Adopt a kid.

4. Strike it rich, then I will not have to get mental everyday!

5. Take a cruise trip all over all the world, after conquering space, hehehe!

6. Probably have a one night stand with a "see ham" (have sex with the opposite sex).

7. Own a gay spa, earn heaps of money from it if item # 4 do not materialize.

8. After item # 8, I will open a gay retirement village!

8 Things I say often:

1. Fuck

2. Shit

3. Wa Lau Eh

4. "Sei Loh" (Die loh)

5. So "Charm" (so pitiful)

6. Fabulous

7. "Kiam Siap" (stingy)

8. Thank you. (hard to believe it, I can be courteous too)

8 Books I read recently:

1. Jesus of Nazareth by Joseph Ratzinger

2. The Holy Bible (every Sunday)

3. Mister Monday by Garth Nitz

4. Grim Tuesday by Garth Nitz

5. Newspapers

6. Blogs

7. Biography of Pope John Paul II

8. 8 days.

8 Songs / Artistes that I can listen to over and over:

1. Madonna

2. Plain white T's

3. Never had a dream come true - S CLUB 7

4. Anthony Callea (he is so cute yet talented)

5. Josh Groban ( he's good)

6. Michael Buble (he sings to me)

7. Daughtry (I like this style)

8. Pink ( I love her style)

8 Things that my friends find me attractive:

1. My sense of humor (sick humor you mean)

2. Optimism

3. Kindness

4. Lovable

5. Fun

6. My bitchiness

7. Practical

8. Pragmatic

** WTF, only 8? I have more qualities that those, but namely- humble, trustworthy, joyful, etc etc, gosh, so many of them, are you sure that when you put in this, Bong Bong, we are expected to be truthful, LOL!!

So, am I going to tag anyone? Naw, I shall leave it as it is...

oops, too much skin shedding off...

LATEST UPDATES

Oops, no updates for a few days now, yes? Well, I have been busy, but not of the dating sort though! I have been busy with the books that my colleague got for me, its a series of it and its named rather simply as the days of the week.

The whole collection runs through Sunday and my colleague told me that I'm only getting it until Friday and she will pass me the rest upon me having finished reading all. Hence, I'm engaged with my reading now, not that its not good, but then again, I have my other activities to be contended with, so really sitting down and picking up a book is so so challenging especially when I have so many distractions out there. But, its alright, I think I can survive, and indeed I believe I can.

these series complement for the upcoming movie, The Golden Compass

Till then, will periodically come in here and tell you guys stories or updates from my friends. Oh, yes, I'm also feeling a bit festive and since, its like only a month away from Christmas, I have also put up the grand old tree (ran from generations and still survived) in my living place, and it looks pretty and homely. Only hoping now, that it might just snow? That would complement everything.

UNWANTED PUBLIC AFFECTIONS

Picture this scene taken from a steam room. Guys in towels, steam is all over the place, there's the hissing sound of the mechanics of it working and of course, yours truly sitting down, enjoying the heat and truly believing that my pores will open up, and when it does, dirt will come out. Once that process is done, I will have a beautiful skin, that's what I was imaging at that moment.


While all this was taking place, two guys walked in, unfazed with the surroundings, and sat at one of the corner. As a matter of fact, they were sitting at my right hand side. From the steamy outlook of that room, I managed to catch a glimpse of the two guys. One was short and the other was taller. The shorter one had a spiky hair, was medium built and had a toned up body. His partner, the taller one, had short hair, was lanky and could tell he was not as built up like his partner. He, however had this six pack which was so evident and how I envied him. I began to take a deep breath just to suck in and pull out my chest, so as not to lose out.

As I was taking this action, the taller guy, who was next to me, then began to put his head on his partner's shoulder. He began to lean more closer to this partner and then whispered something to his partner's ear, which obviously was funny, as both of them laughed. Then, the other partner also moved closer, as in trying to reciprocate his partner's action. Suddenly both of them was very close and the taller guy, still leaned his head on his partner's shoulder.

What would your reaction to this be? Lovely right? Such a loving couple demonstrating their untold love for the world to envy and thus, ensure that theirs was the event that should not be missed in the steam room that evening. But, something is wrong here, very very wrong indeed.

I mean, I'm not against such public affection and gestures by two loving couples, heaven forbid that I should even condemn such actions, as I will always think that such public affections, reaffirms the commitment made by two people in love. But, to show such public affections in a gym steam room, is totally wrong!

mmm, kiss me quick...

Yes, this was what I observed this evening when I was done with my workout in the gym. I was astonished and yet amazed, like how brave or stupid can one be? If it was empty, fine, but then again, it was filled with other guys, and I don't think all of them were gays! Except me, who was busily observing their antics, I thought that such an action, should have been refrained or if this was a gay club, then by all means, but already we have such homophobic people out there, why go on and prove them that what they have (by being homophobic) is correct?

Also, lately, I have noticed that the guard stationed in our locker room, now does his rounds at the shower areas too. Perhaps some straight bean pole guy made a complaint by saying that these shameless gays were cruising at the wrong areas or worse still engaged in some fornicated activities behind the shower curtains? I shrug to think so, but in reality, it has happened, as per my previous posts.

**Sigh**

SPATE OF BAD LUCK!

CK has been having a spat of bad luck recently. First his car battery had some problems, and it stalled right next to the highway last Saturday. Then, on Sunday, it again failed on him despite him changing it and this time it was much luckier, at the BP station near to his home.

However, the worst part of it was this morning, when his car got stalled again and this time it happened at roundabout near his place. The traffic policeman who were manning the roads at that moment, helped him to push the car to the side. While he was at the side, CK called up his dad to come help him out of this but suddenly out of nowhere, two Indian chaps who obviously saw how his car stalled, came by their motorbikes and one of them, approached CK and threatened him with a knife.

will this all end...?

They pulled of his gold chain he was wearing and took his cell phone. As his car keys were in the car, the robber also took that away from him and within seconds, sped away. This happened while there were cars moving along that busy road that morning and also, policemen (3) were stationed at the roundabout. I asked him if he got hurt, and he told me that he did not, only got some scratches on him and that's about it. Later, his dad did arrived but all this had already taken place, and a police report was subsequently made at the police station.

I told CK that he was lucky that they did not take his wallet and it would be very cumbersome if one were to lose the important documents in it. However, the sad part is that he lost the cell phone that he bought only like last year and its not even one year old. I feel sad for him...


I pray and hope that he would really get out of this spate of unlucky incidents, hopefully, this will be the end of it! As they say, it never rains but pours BUT, the optimist in me will add, A Sliver Lining will appear after the storm!

MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE!

do the right thing, choose HAPPINESS!

All of us have choices, either we make good choices or bad ones, no matter what, they are given to us as humans. However, there is a simple choice that we have all forgotten to undertake, that is the choice to be happy or sad.

From my countless and numerous conversations and also truly, myself who have had this choice, this simple task seems to be a tall order to follow up to. Why do I say this? Well, look at this at your side of the fence.

For instance, if we were to choose be happy and truly we will be, but if we choose otherwise, then it looks like, not only are we going to be miserable but will also affect the others around us. But, having said that, at times we do feel a burden to put on a happy face and go along with the flow, as deeper down us, we have been conditioned to be miserable! Only if we were to overcome this and put on a mature way of thinking out loudly the consequences of our choices, I guess we will make the right ones!

But, as humans as we are and as the scriptures says "The body is willing, but the spirit is weak!", many a times, we fall to this trap. We psyche ourselves that we will be happy but one little thing that triggers us, we will fall back to the stage of self-pity and blame all the whole world but ourselves for feeling lousy!!

Many a times, I fall to this trap too, and by putting this down in my Blog, I'm trying to re-affirm myself and hopefully the others who read this, that our happiness is in our state of mind, all we need is to change our perspective and move on with those choices. Hence, I believe very strongly, why I managed to learn all this is because I have tasted the sweetness, sourness, and the bitter pills of life.

So, to all those who have always managed to complain and always make as if life is treating them so badly, perhaps, its the wrong choices that has been chosen?

** p/s if u read this, you should know by now, what to make of your life!

TOO LATE TO APOLOGIZE

I read Ryan's blog about Dante's Cove and wanted to find out what it was all about and to my surprise, it does contain elements of surprise! Of course, the eye candies are like delicious and you notice how immaculately nice their bodies all turn out to be? Notwithstanding, their good looks are also a plus point!

the cast of Dante's Cove

Anyway, I like this song too "Too Late To Apologize" by Timbaland & One Republic and what better way to portray with the above video from Dante's Cove.

the happy couple, who fight all odds to be together...

GADGET MEME

Thank you very much, Ah Bong for tagging me...with a surly smile at my side. Hmm, ok, since I did promise you that I will do it, so here is the gadget meme...but really, why a gadget meme? Who thinks of this please...more erotic ones in the future, please!



Latest gadget I bought:- my trusted Sony Ericsson's phone, but in reality, I still want to get something in the market but have not decided what to get.



What's the first gadget that I own? Parents bought me a hand held game when I was younger, it was fun while it lasted though. Can't remember whats it called but its almost close to the newer versions of GameBoy.



What's the expensive gadget that I ever owned? My laptop PC, a Compaq Persario. Actually, I owned several gadgets but I guess at the moment, this is the lappie that I bring along anywhere.



What's the next gadget that I want to get? Perhaps the IPOD touch?



Do I follow the updates of the latest gadgets in the market? No, not really because I get updates from my friends who will tell me what's new in the market.

my trusted hand phone...

What brand do you trust for handphone, camera, computer?

Handphone: Nokia / Sony Ericsson's

Camera: Nikon

Computer: Compaq.



I shall not tag anyone....let it be....

THE ONE WITH THE ANNUAL DINNER

what a BORING night...

Last night, I attend my company's Annual Dinner and Dance, and truth be told, it was not very entertaining. I found the whole set up to be utterly boring and best yet, the prizes that came along with it was not attractive. Perhaps, I did not get to win, so like the proverbial saying, "The Grapes are Sour!!"

Anyways, it was not something I would have anticipated and like the many years I had attended, this was the same. It was not memorable nor was it captivating enough to grab my attention and yet I still wonder, why do I put up to attend it since I have so many negative sayings about it? Coming back to the dinner itself, after the customary speech by the President, then came the honors, and the entertainment plus food. The entertainment was surprisingly BAD and the food, WORSE!

After all those unfavorable statements of it, I still hold on to the hope that perhaps next year will be better...well that's the optimist in me talking but the bitch part of me, will just go on bitching!

BE THE WOLF, BEOWULF!

look into my eyes...

"Make love to me, and you shall be king forever...."with these statement, does it warrant to you to believe that this was picked up from a movie I went to watch last night? Well, yes this was the so called "pick up" line from that flirty Grendel's mother to Beowulf.

This took place at Cineleisure and I was immediately surprised that for a CG movie like this, the respond from the crowd was overwhelming. For a weekday, I told Sluttila, Wingedman and Wingedman's The BF, these good folks don't need to work? Could also be the holidays soon and I guess that's why it was full for a week day night.

The movie portrays this dude called Beowulf who lived like in the year AD 560, who managed to slay a demon-like monster called Grendel. To fight Grendel, the hero needs to be in the buff and this makes for many of us last night (the sesat pondans that is), trying to catch that glimpse of his "private parts". Perhaps a campaign to show-off the private parts of Beowulf should be organized so that it can be properly revealed to all. The CG created the body of Beowulf unimaginably out of this world! Every part of his body was flawless and I must admit I got a bit of a turned on looking at it even though I know it was so many things added into it!

an awesome, out of this world body...

And, how about the part where Grendel's mother seduce Beowulf? If Beowulf was gay, I think he would have just said no thank you, I don't fancy "see hams" (clams) but your shoes are hot, where did you get them? Oh, that Gucci glistening on your body is so in, I just admire you! Imagine a gay Beowulf trading fashion secrets with that vengeful Grendel's mother!!

check out those stilettos...!

So, if you do want to catch this for some leisure session, watch it and have a good laugh at it. I guess, at some point of the time, there is the slasher, the ripper and the gore that will appear but we will dismiss it because we tend to think, after all, it unreal, its all animated. However, it was good, 'cause at times, I really did not know which part was real and which part was CG. However, I would love to be in Angeline's role, of all the roles in that movie, she holds the BEST part (in terms of fashion and also being flirty).

VIRGIN GETS CRUISED

Ever been cruised before? If yes, can you remember exactly what happened? Like, when did it take place, where was it and, seriously, how old were you when you were approached?

I was thinking of this subject when I was passing through THE MALL the other day. All of us have in one way or the other have gone there for shopping or just probably to check out that place, no? Well, as for me, during my time, that place used to be a the place besides Sungei Wang. KLCC did not appear on our radars at that time, so THE MALL was THE place for many a people to hang out. Located in Jln Putra, it was situated opposite of the Pan Pacific Hotel and also the nearby, UMNO HQ.

During those times, PUTRA or KOMUTER did not appear at all, and the only way access from PJ to that place, was by bus. I remember mini bus were abound at those times, so, pretty much, if you can read this, I guess you must be thinking which part of the world am I living in, right? Actually, I gather that most of you would have never experienced a mini bus like me, so, in way, I think I feel pity for you...**smirk**

Anyway, I'm not going to delve on this but rather on what I had intended to talk about. I remember getting a part-time job after my SPM and I went to work in this music store (which was operated by a relative) to earn some extra pocket money and at the same time, to get my application approved before I did my A-levels.

The job was pretty easy, all I had to do was to help take care of the store, assist customers if they wanted to get some albums, test out the quality if they asked for and other stuff like stock taking etc etc. I had to work from morning (11 am right up to 8pm), so mostly I will be spending my time at the mall. My breaks will be for lunch and dinner and its usually half an hour or so.

I would usually have my break at the ground floor where the food court would be or I would just hang around the place but after a while, it gets pretty boring and all I want to do is just grab a bite and do a bit of reading. It was when I was having this break that one day, I was officially cruised by this guy in his late 20-s.

There used to be a fountain at the lower ground floor where the food court met with the supermarket and that was the usual place I will always hang out. I will just sit there, read something or at times, just stare blankly on the going-ons around me; until this guy appeared.

"Hi, excuse me, can I ask you a question?" the guy asked.

"Sure, what would you like to know?" I answered.

"Is there a disco in this building?" he added.

"A disco? Hmm...I'm not sure" I replied.

"Well that place is like a pub actually, so is there any such place in here?" he posed the question to me again.

This time, I was thinking my wits out if such a disco or pub actually existed. I was particularly clueless on his series of questions.

"Sorry, I'm not sure if there is such a place, perhaps you can ask Information" I told him.

He looked at me in a strange way, by which, he opened his mouth once again and said...

"You ever heard of this place called Blue Boy?"

"Huh? Blue Boy?" I asked innocently. ( I swear at that tender age of 17, I really did not know much about Blue Boy or what connections it was posed to me)

"Yes, you ever heard of it?" he asked again.

"No, I'm not sure if I have ever hear of this place" I replied, hoping he would go away.

This time, he did not let me go. He kept on asking me about whether I had a girl friend, which school I attended and asked me about my friends or what I was doing there. I'm not sure what made me answer all of his questions that day, as I know, I was never to speak to strangers in that manner and stupid me, I did not catch his drift when he asked me all those questions. Only, later when he asked the following:-

"I would like to give you a blow job!"

At that juncture, I stood frozen, my heart beat even faster and I felt my adrenalin pounding so hard, I thought I could have just exploded there and then. I did not want to do it, I was afraid, although I wanted to try it with this charming stranger (he looked not bad though) but yet, I know it was not me, I did not know him, he was a total stranger and immediately, I rejected his offer.

please go away...

He was persistent and I was not about to give in until I told him, I needed to go off now, back to work. However, before I could say adieu to him, he mentioned something like he wants to meet again, perhaps in the evening when I finish my work!! At that point, I just walked faster and each time, I turned around, just to make sure he was not tailing me.

That night, when I was about to go home, I felt so freaking scared that every step I made to the bus stop, was like endless. I was afraid that he might come back with a bunch of guys, probably, or maybe he would just harass me again? All this thoughts racing in me, fear and at the same time, enjoying it, but at the end of it, when I reached the bus-stop, I felt a bit of relief when I saw that I was not tailed. The mini bus did arrive on time, and I hopped into it as fast I can, and praying silently that the bus will send me home quickly (all the while, looking out from the window again, if he was there).

Apparently, the next day, I didn't report to work, gave a fucking excuse I was not feeling well, but in reality, I was too scared shit to go back again, just in case, if he was there! Looking back to this episode, I guess paranoia was the ruler of the day! It was both exhilarating and at the same time, something which I will remember for life, hence, why I'm sharing this with you.

looking back, it was funny yet scary...

If you have ever experienced something like what I had gone through, maybe share it with me. Don't know if I should be lucky to be cruised at that tender age.

THE LAUGHING DOCTOR

"Help, help" cried Screaming Sylvia to me this morning, as I was busily replying to some e-mails from another department.

"What's up?" I enquired enthusiastically.

"I think I have blood coming from my anus" SS added.

"Huh? Is that serious? I mean, like what happened?" giving a puzzled look.

"I'm NOT sure, but its like painful and yet it has blood oozing out!" sighed SS.

"You have hemorrhoids?" I replied.

I know why she had run to me on this. A year ago, I had this unfortunate problem and it affected me so much that I had to go for a minor surgery, which I had documented it in my earlier blogs. So, when Screaming Sylvia ran to me about this problem, I know for a matter of fact, she was trying to get more information on this.

Calmly, I asked her all the symptoms related to the hemorrhoids and she began to explain in detail of the pain she was suffering. For a minute or two, I was like the GP at duty at my desk; and when she had finished describing to me, I told her to go to the doctor immediately. If the problem was as serious as what she described to me, then I guess, some form of medication to ease the pain should be taken.

Apart from that, I also told her the importance of having heaps of fibre, fruits and vegetables in her diet. In addition to that, drinking fluid also helps tone down the temperature of the body, since Chinese will always believe that such things are usually caused when the body is "heaty". After a good twenty minutes of explaining to her the causes and also reassuring her that she does not have to go for any surgery, she went back to her work station, and I continued with my work. I did also reminded her the importance of seeking the doctor but she told me that she would go after work.

So, this evening, SS called me on my cellphone. Thinking that perhaps she might be on MC the next day and she wanted to inform me since I was the team leader, I picked up the call and asked her how it was.

"Are you alright?" I asked.

"Yes, I'm fine" SS replied.

"So how did it go?" I enquired further.

"Hmm, you know, I went to 4 panel clinics!" SS complained.

"Why on earth did you go to 4 panel clinics? Are you paranoid?" I said with a hint of direct sarcasm.

"No, the other 3 clinics all had male doctors on duty, and I did not want to go to a male doctor, so I went to the 4th clinic and, luckily, it was a female doctor" SS explained.

"Everything went well, I suppose" I added.

"Oh, that bloody clinic! The doctor did not even checked on me, just asked me what happened, and I told her and before you knew it, she was already prescribing me some anti-biotic and also a tube to be inserted in my anus. The worst part of all this, the stupid doctor and her merry jolly nurses were laughing sheepishly at my predicament" SS screamed on.

"What? They actually did that?!!" not believing that this happened.

it's rude to laugh at other people's misfortune...

For a fact here, this poor girl was in pain and the least those in the clinic should have behaved more prudently than go about laughing at someone's misfortune, is something which I strongly cannot fathom! I mean, you are suppose to be in the health line and suppose to be upholding your Hippocratic Oath and not being hypocrite about it. I'm not sure, perhaps the very value in people to uphold all these moral good deeds have since surpassed and our fellow humankind has progressed to a level, that I can only word it as despicable?

A FORGETFUL FEUD!

What happens if you were in a feud with a friend of yours and it happened many years ago and until today, your friend is still sore with you? The best part is, you can't even remember how that little misunderstanding started?

Well, yours truly here have this little unfortunate incident thrust into me. It all came back to me when I was talking to Slipper Whore the other evening. It seems like an "ex-friend" of mine, whom I shall call, Chubby Ben (CB for short), was spotted in Bangkok's infamous DJ Station one evening. SW recognized CB from afar and then proceeded to talk to him but from what SW can gather from the whole conversation, CB was extremely rude and also showed no respect whatever.

SW being the sort that will not tolerate any sort of indiscipline from problematic princesses, was surprisingly cool about the whole incident. It was SW's cool temperament and perhaps all that alcohol that probably made SW a bit demure instead of aggressive. Anyways, back to that CB, SW asked him if he still kept in touch with yours truly but instead of getting some sane answer, a barrage of nonsensical utterance began to foam out. It was like some mad person getting into an amok stage. After a good ten minutes or so, SW still did not understand a word what CB had relayed to him.

Instead, the whole conversation ended very quickly and before one knew it, nothing concrete actually transpired out of it. So, SW messaged me about this incident and asked me actually what happened?

"I really do not know what actually made CB acted that way" I replied.

"Well, he was very rude, you know, and the way he talked, I wanted so much to just smack him" retorted SW.

"Let him be, don't bother, I mean if he chooses to be in that way, let him, after all that is his choice" I said.

"Can you actually remember?" asked SW again.

Crackling my head to really dig deep inside to understand what actually happened at this was already more than 5 years ago. So many things happened and passed, and I don't think it was actually my fault entirely.

" I think I was dragged into this misunderstanding and it all began with Sistah K and another friend of ours" I began to recall.

"Oh, you know that Sistah K's mouth la, very the acid one!" SW added.

"Yeah, I guess, so, but I really did not know what happened but I think SK said something which was not favorable to CB and my name was added into it without my presence and knowledge to rebut it, so I guess, CB got angry of me for standing on SK's side" I continued.

So, with that, a little misunderstanding that had occurred since so long ago have since brought forward to this present age and best of it, I do not even know what actually happened or how I got into the picture?

let's kiss up and make up...

But, life goes on, and I'm not going to crack my head thinking about such trivia things. I guess, when you lose a friend and if that friend is angry over such a small matter, it really shows how well your friendship with that person has evolved. In true blue essence, it means, that it was never meant to be long lasting, just a hi and bye situation and we move on. I guess Life is such, if we keep harping on things that is useless, we too become useless, like garbage strewn all over the place!

MEME ME

Oops, I forgot about this tagging thing and my apologies Chester for not doing this earlier. It looks simple enough for me to answer it so, here it goes:-

1. Tissue or handkerchief ?

Handkerchief most of the time if its in the office and tissues come in handy when I'm not in any formal events.

2. Shoes or Sneakers?

Shoes for formal, sneakers for non-formal periods. At times, flip flops are used for the most convenient times, as it is cooling and comfortable.

3. Collar shirt or T-shirt?

Depends on the situation. Mostly Tees will do!

4. Brief or boxers?

Briefs mostly, but boxers when I sleep but at times, I like to sleep 'au naturale'.

5. Pants or Khakis?

Again depends on the situation and the type of function I'm attending. However, I love both of them.

6. Fast food or restaurant / Kopitiam?

When I'm having my sudden cravings for fast food, I will venture to it and if I want my fix of "kueh teow tng" or my "curry laksa" from the PJ Old Town kopitiam or the Market Food center, I will head to them. Mostly, I always indulge in home cooked meals.

7. Horror or Fantasy movie?

Both, I like them both!

8. Starbucks or CoffeeBean?

Starbucks.

9. Gengki Sushi or Sushi King?

Neither, I prefer to go to authentic Japanese restaurants for my fix of sashimis.

10. Pavilion or The Gardens?

Pavilion anytime.

Now, I solemnly hereby do not tag anyone. :)

I like it simple and comfy...

BEE THE MOVIE

"You only get one chance of career in your whole life time!" so quoted the bees in the animated feature BEE MOVIE now currently showing and of which, yours truly also had to the privilege of watching it amidst the sea of children around.

Yes, second childhood always seems to creep into me but then what can I do about it? I'm sure all of us have this little Peter Pan who simply refuses to grow up, right? So, last night, tugging along our dear SW (Slutty Whore), we stood in line just to get our tickets to watch the BM. It was a horrendous line of people but fortunately, it was moving. We were at MidValley GSC's cinema and amongst the crowd, there were heaps of eye candies too!! There was this one standing just close to me, and you know, suddenly my hands began to shake, no no, not to do it in public mind you, but to want to actually snap a pic of him, close up! But, chicken shit took the best of me, and all I have is only a faded memory of him and the smell of his fragrance!

Besides, I did see a whole of them from the gym too, so I was wondering if yesterday was a good day for movies and why all of them have congregated in GSC's MV? Ok, on the movie, well, if you like to watch happy endings with a twist of moral to it, go for it. Enjoy your 1 and a half hour of it listening to Seinfield and for that matter, if I just close my eyes, I will have thought that I was actually watching the sit-com, Seinfield on TV!

ANTHONY CALLEA

I've heard of this guy called Anthony Callea but never got to goggle him to find out how he looks like or what he was? Essentially, he was an Australian Idol finalist and I found out that he hails from down under and resides in Melbourne.

Last night, while at Sluttila's place waiting for our weekly mahjong session to begin, I was introduce to this young fine gentleman. He is 24, of Italian parentage and best of all, he is a PLU! At this age, I'm truly amazed at his talents and not to mention his boyish good looks that come along with it. For someone at his age, listen to how he sings (I have added a link to watch it).

Now, we know that talented and yet good looking PLUs are hard to find but for this guy who was accidentally "outed" by a radio station, did not shriek off it nor deny it. Instead, he came out clean about his sexuality. Such a brave young guy, and I know for many, being in the closet seems to be our comfort zone (inclusive of me).

Possessing such powerful vocals, Anthony has mesmerised me with his charming and yet charismatic performance when doing the PRAYER. I really hope he will succeed well because not many PLUs out there who can sing and have the looks at the same time, have eventually became major stars; but even if he does not, I guess we will be proud of him to have shown that being PLU is not about being bitchy, about fashion more likely in our abilities and our talents. Actually, most PLUs are really talented people, only a minority of us out there have soiled our lineage and the general perception by the straight people out there is that we are a people always obsessed with sex (well sex comes with moods and like all straights, we are the same with them) and thus, labelled as sluts!

Therefore, people like Anthony really shines some positive light on us.

GLUTTON'S DIARY 101

This dinner took place some time ago at the House of Sundanese Food in KLCC. Basically, serves Indonesian style food, I have always found this restaurant a favorite place of mine. Spicy is not the order of the day here so, for those who are afraid of having to eat al those hot and spicy stuff, will find this place suited to their taste bud.

fried fish - so crunchy even the bones!

That night, we had the infamous fried fish (it was crunchy all the way), grilled squid, tahu telor (towfoo egg) and pucuk paku (jungle ferns) cooked in coconut. I found the rest to my liking but the pucuk paku was a wee bit disappointing for me. Perhaps I was banding this with the way my mom cooks this dish, but usually, she will cook it in the kerabu way i.e. with spicy birds eye chillies mashed together with belacan, onions, dried shrimps, sugar, fish sauce and heaps of lime juice. Kerabu is usually in the form of a salad.

yellow rice

Overall, the food was good and the additional yellow rice (nasi minyak) gave it an added notch up its taste level. Oh, yes, their infamous "belinjao" (bitter crackers) dipped in sambal belacan was the starters! And, if you take their barley water, its free flowing!

pucuk paku masak lemak

grilled squid

tahu telor

hot couple spotted!!

HAPPY DIWALI

kolam decoration (grains of rice used in this process)

Living in a multi faceted country like ours is truly wonderful. If last month, we felt the Raya mood, this time, we will put our hands out to celebrate the festival of lights. Yes, Diwali or Deepavali, depending at which dialect you pronounce it, is still a major festival here.

another shot of the kolam decoration

What I know about this festival besides the good over evil thing, is the arrays of food dished out that day. One can expect muruku, oompudi, mutton varuwal, all the various sweet meats and delicious curries being dished out! If you do not like spicy food, then I guess this would not fancy you but then, to me, I love Indian food; never can get sick of curries, must have been my multi-racial upbringing.

mutton curry

murukku

Soon, I will be going out to the various open houses and will indulge myself in those sinful but yet wonderful laden caloric food! For those who will be joining their friends, well here's my wish to all, A HAPPY DIWALI & Happy Holidays to all!

diwali decorations

another shot of the decorations

aerial shot

** darn, forgot to take a day off tomorrow!!!**

MAKING NO SENSE

I like this time of the year if I'm living in a temperate country. The smell of Autumn and the changes of color in the landscape captures what I aim for in living. Truly, I admire the changes in nature and the ability of it to transform. It never fails to astonish my being to appreciate the wonders in life. Again, this could foretell the type of character that is ME.


However, living in Malaysia, with its constant summer season all year round, we never get to see major changes in the landscape. All we get is the evergreen feeling and at times, we do long for some change in scene and maybe also the temperature. Of course, running up to the mountains would help but then again, how many of us actually live in there? And, of course, going up there also presents us with more greenery and how about a bit of snow to fall?

Perhaps, what we have over here, some other people may envy us and to some, what they have over there, also begs to increase our earnest to reach out to the other of the fence! Humans are infallible all the while, ensuring that we get the best of everything and yet never in rejecting more.


Ahh, the follies of the human nature!

do u understand what I'm trying to say....?

**posted by me who should be sound asleep in bed** (not sure what I was thinking of when I wrote this)

EXPERIENCE OF THE HAIRY KIND!

i'm smooth...u like?

Let's talk about hair again! Since my last post on my white hair, I want to delve on this subject again since as they say, the hair is liken to your crowning glory. Even Samy Vellu has a toupee, so go figure!!


OK, hair is important to us but then again, what I'm about to delve on today is not so much about the one on top, neither the one down there, but the one on our body. Yes, the body has hair, and like all good students who studied Biology before, you will notice that both men and women have hair on their bodies. Its a human thing to have hair and I guess it will be weird if we meet someone who does not have any hair at all, or like they call it "smooth".



Hair grows all over our body be it on our face, our arms, legs and even on our chest. Some guys I know get turned on with the sight of a chest hair and usually most Caucasians will have them (some Asians too). But, if you have never had a Caucasian boyfriend or had a fling with one, you would never notice how hard it is to do foreplay especially the licking of the body, when your partner is the hairy type. I do not fancy having hair stuck all over my tongue while I'm using it to arouse my partner; neither do I like to the fact that I have to search for his nipples amidst the growing jungle of chest hairs. No, no, no....but then again some guys just like the fact that their partners are hairy. Well to each his own I will add.


Like, I was packing my stuff in the gym this evening when suddenly out of a sudden (very dramatic you know), this guy turned out from nowhere, and was like 3 lockers away from me. I never noticed him as I busy stuffing my stuff in my bag and not sure what made me turned over to steal a second glance at him. So, I did and my second glance turned to a third and to a fourth. Why was I glaring him? No, he was not hawt! Neither did he belong the cute parade and so why was I staring at him?

Corrections...not at him but what was growing at his back! Yes, guys, if you can believe it, our dear friend here actually has a clump of hair growing at the back of his body. And, it was not a small clump, mind you, it was a huge clump and it was so gross!! It was long and if I was that guy, I would have waxed it long ago. I'm amazed that he allowed it to grow so long. Picture this arm pit hair that has not been trimmed and look out for people who usually have very thick bushy types!

please trim those unwanted hairs...

I so wanted to snap a picture of him and show you guys in here but I don't think it was appropriate since its in the locker room and besides, it would be too obvious. You can call me brave but I'm no fool either! Like discovering something wonderful, I hasten my pace and got my stuff just to walk out so that I can catch a closer glimpse of his clumps of hair growing from the back, which I successfully did! On a closer inspection, I did notice that he also had some hair on his chest but it was also like clump on the 'gulf' i.e the section between his chest. And, like the back, the front was also very obviously long and messy! The best part of this is that, this guy is smooth, yes, not the sort of hairy person you will find but he had clumps growing at wrong places!


So, if you have hair that needs to be tended, please do something about it and not allow it to grow into some forest?

STARDUST-ING TIME!

aglow with magic

Oh oh...two movies in a two days and both equally good. If i mentioned about Josh in the first one, I will mention stars in the next one. Yes, I'm talking about THE movie StarDust!

If you profess to be some selfless romantic out there, perhaps this is the best time to re-affirm your beliefs, what with a couple of magic and fantasy thrown in? We all like to believe in some sort of Prince Charming coming our way, sweeping us from our feet and professing their undying love for us and the best part of it, living happily ever after? Yes, typical fairy tale book story here, you have the power struggle, the search for eternal youth and last but not least, the quest for love of his life.

mmm, kiss me quick...

u look so beautiful

prince charming material?

come over and sit at my lap

Al this add up together makes a good movie and based on its original novel, some changes were made, but of course, it still makes a good movie to watch especially for those who still wish to hold on to that belief that somewhere, some place, there's someone who is searching for us...especially those singles out there.

Lamia, the witch

what a way to beat the high petrol prices

goat's buggy?

So call up your friends and your best mates and even if you are attached, this is one movie one can go to and have a star-dusting time!

these boobs are real!

kneel when u see royalty, you imbecile!