TALES OF A SUGAR BOY (PART ONE)

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Since I have been talking about getting rich, perhaps its best I come to this topic about sugar daddies.

What or who is eligible to be a sugar daddy? The role definitely falls upon a person who is older, loaded with cash or asset and is definitely able to splurge on younger boys. I believe that such a definition is what most of us will have of them.

How many of us have sugar daddies? I have none, as I do not fall to that category of being a kept boy. But, I know friends who had been kept boys before and they have related to me stories about themselves and their sugar daddies. And these are their stories: -

Case # 1

Gorgeous Gregory (GG) had just turned 18 and was hanging around the mall one day. GG is the typical boy-ish type of guy you will encounter with their spiky and well-groomed hair. Dressed in his typical teenager outfits, one look you will note that he is your typical next-door boy.

He was sitting down at one of the open spaces just to relax and suddenly out of nowhere, a guy sat next to him.

Describing this guy who look like he is into his mid 40-s, looks a bit stout but as he was tall, it was sort of complemented his size. He was well dressed in his executive outfit and his hair was well combed to reflect the “karipap” hairstyle (you know the sort of like Superman’s hairstyle). He smelled good and was immaculate in his outlook.

The guy opened his mouth and introduced himself to GG and asked what GG was doing in the mall. He began to ask a series of questions to ‘fish’ out more information from GG.

GG was at first apprehended by the approach but soon found that this soon to be Sugar Daddy to be a nice guy and quite gentlemanly in his approach. Sensing nothing wrong, GG began to open up a conversation with him. He found SD to be a nice guy, very fatherly in this approach and also at the same time, seem to be very knowledgeable.

GG likes guys who are mature and also well dressed. Hence, their little chat soon turned to dinners and the next thing, it was going out on regular dates. Soon, GG began to fall for him not so much as a lover but more likely as someone he could turn to for advices or even a mature sense of conversation.

SD was very encouraging towards GG, always telling him to focus on his studies and if GG wanted anything, SD will provide the cash for him. Soon, GG began to spend his weekends at SD’s love shack located somewhere in the up-market residential area of Bangsar. Their love-making turned very successful as SD who was much older and more experienced, knew how to turn on GG. Hence, there were no qualms in the department of sex.

Soon, GG was receiving monthly allowances of about RM 1000.00 and to a student that was a lot. He began to indulge himself into branded stuff and soon, trips were being made. He traveled to several Asian destinations flying in first class and his SD absorbed all these expenses. (How he managed to go for all of these holidays, well, GG lied to his parents saying he was going on school trips!)

But, like all good things, this will come to an end. Soon, the SD was beginning to suspect GG was playing behind his back. GG had developed a habit of smoking and also interacting with guys from the Internet. GG began to have fun with other guys behind the SD’s back.

Tender moments turned to ghastly moments when arguments abounded. It was not a pretty sight and soon, SD gave an ultimatum to GG, either reforms his ways or risk being cut-off completely in this relationship.

GG realized that he was losing a gold mine here so, he begged for forgiveness and asked that he be given another chance. GG did get his chance and things turned out well for a few months only and soon, the bad habits began to re-surface.

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At that time, GG was already enrolled in a local college preparing for his Australian degree program. GG was becoming more arrogant and thinking that he might be able to catch himself of another SD, he began looking for one. He frequented clubs and pubs to source out for his next victim.

He did meet up a few and soon, it turns out that the highest bidder would get GG’s full attention and body. As expected, he broke off with his current SD and followed another man. Sad to say, GG’s focus now was totally in disarray. He lost focus on his studies, was immersed into materialistic things and even to the fact that, he was indulging in many vices that seem only to harm himself.

This went for a few years and finally at his ripe age of 25, he began to lose his shine to others cuter and boy-ish in the market. GG looks back to his yesteryears with full regret and acknowledged that his first SD was the best person who treated him with respect and taught him a lot of things. Sad to say, he did not comprehend the full meaning of love at that point of time.

Today, as I look at GG, I noticed that he is still living in his dreams. I’m sad that he has come to a point that he looks nothing more than to have fun all the time and all the years of good life has made him even more lofty in his ideas (never in tune with reality). He speaks with no substance in himself and at many times, has been ridiculed by my other friends. However, I do feel a soft spot for him but then again, if he does not wake up from his dreams and stop having too much high expectations, maybe, just maybe, his life would be better?

Case # 2… continues in my next blog.