MONEY BOYS

I'm for sale, any takers??

One boring Sunday afternoon, I was catching up with a friend of mine, now, lets call this person Flirty Whore (FW). So, FW was updating me about a certain mutual friend of ours and the dilemma this person was facing. Let's name this person Not So Bright (NSB).

NSB it seems met a certain not so young guy who we will named as Money Boy (MB). Now, NSB has been with MB for some time now, almost coming to a year. But, only recently according to FW, NSB suspects that MB is a really a MB. All this time, we already know the true nature of MB's character but only foolish NSB was blinded by love; that he could not see who MB was and how manipulative MB has been towards NSB.

NSB began lamenting to FW and actually asked FW to tell MB that the relationship's over. FW of course did not agree to this arrangement. If there is any break ups, the proper way was to tell to the person in the flesh or if it not, better to send a sms, since divorce sms is accepted by a certain faith.

NSB did not have the courage to counter MB and hence, kept on begging FW to do the dirty job for him. FW asked NSB why he did not see fit to continue with this relationship, and amongst the things he listed was as :-

1. No sense of direction even approaching the age of 30.

2. No ambition. (the only ambition MB has is to online after work)

3. Does not possess a driving license.

4. Does not pay for anything - NSB seems to be the sugar daddy in this relationship.

5. Not good at cooking although claims to be a world champion chef. (it tastes horrible)

6. Mahjong all the time.

7. Fridae & Axcest all the time - like MB has to clock in & out as though working there.

8. Speaks highly of himself, dominates the other half and shoots down NSB all the time.

Given the above, NSB has already had enough of this relationship and wants to end it but whether this will go through, it will be another story as this was brought up many times and many times, it was said but never done.

So, we guess that this time, its going to be a pinch of salt and not likely to happen at all.

But in reality, many relationships out there are like that. When one party is older and the other younger, it seems that the younger will rely mostly on the older to provide and instead of having it both ways, it seems lopsided.
This happens also in cases where one party can afford to fork out the dough, while the other half is a struggling blue collar worker or office admin. assistant, then it makes f****ing sense to subsidise.

My question here is how long do you think you want to do that? Yeah, all that lovely dovey and not into talking too much about money and sorts, well, I do not agree that it will have to continue like that forever. I'll always believe when the honey runs dry and the sour "kana" sets in, and the flames of passion becomes flames of hatred, all this nitty gritty stuff will come out. It will pour out like some hot lava after being suppressed for so long. Hence, I always believe that what is yours is yours, what is mine is mine, keep it that way, and I guess the relationship will blossom further!